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What more can any Christian desire?

“As for me, God forbid that I should boast about anything
except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Galatians 6:14

There is enough in a suffering Christ, to fill us and satisfy
us to the full. He has the greatest worth and wealth in Him.
Look, as the worth and value of many pieces of silver is to be
found in one piece of gold; just so, all the petty excellencies
which are scattered abroad in the creatures—are to be found
in a bleeding, dying Christ! Yes, all the whole volume of
perfections which is spread through heaven and earth—is
epitomized in Him who suffered on the cross! A man cannot
exaggerate, in speaking of the glories of Christ. Certainly it
is as easy to contain the sea in a sea-shell—as to fully relate
the transcendent excellencies of a suffering Christ!

O sirs! there is in a crucified Jesus—something
proportionate to all the straits, needs, necessities,
and desires of His poor people. He is . . .
bread to nourish them,
a garment to cover and adorn them,
a physician to heal them,
a counselor to advise them,
a captain to defend them,
a prince to rule them,
a prophet to teach them,
a priest to make atonement for them;
a husband to protect them,
a father to provide for them,
a brother to relieve them,
a foundation to support them,
a head to guide them,
a treasure to enrich them,
a sun to enlighten them, and
a fountain to cleanse them!

What more can any Christian desire
—to
satisfy him and save him; and to make him
holy and happy—in time and eternity?

(Brooks, “The Golden Key to Open Hidden Treasures”)

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Giving God Glory in Marriage-pt.2

Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them(Colossians 3:19)

We live in a society that is pleasure oriented, that is always seeking the newest and most innovative ways to please itself and escape from the reality that weighs it down, and because we are so self-centered-we seem to have discarded the lifelong covenant as the basis of marriage, but we desperately need to recover God’s truth on this foundational issue. As the divorce rate has skyrocketed in the last 40 years, we are beginning to see the fallout in our society as the devastating effects of decades of disintegrating marriages have strewn the landscape with broken families, whose children then perpetuate the cycle over and over again. People so often ruin their lives through their own foolishness and then have the audacity to become angry at God-as if it is His fault. As problems in marriage mount, it is easy for men to become bitter with their wives, to blame their wives for antagonizing them and having a bad attitude, and it becomes tempting to walk away and start with a “clean slate.”  It is this bitterness that drives a wedge between covenant partners, it tempts us to be distracted, and this keeps us from looking where God’s Word requires us to look. And because bitterness has deceived many, it is our responsibility to pray that the God of heaven would teach us to be wise about this great evil.

Because of our pride ; the hardness of our hearts and the deceitfulness of our hearts, the person who is bitter will frequently, vehemently on occasion, declare that they are not bitter-but that they are the only ones that have the proper, accurate perspective on the situation. So how can you know if you are bitter toward your spouse, or anyone else for that matter? There are five signs that indicate that root of bitterness is actively working to destroy the relationships in your life. As you read through these, ask yourself, honestly, if they are applicable to you. Be honest-no one will know! The first tell-tale sign of bitterness is a sharp memory for details; the root of bitterness has very good study habits and will review events and conversations repeatedly. Second, bitter words are frequently unsigned, anonymous attacks and critiques will often surface as bitterness seeks to hide exposure. David spoke about this in Psalm 64:2-4, “Hide me from the secret counsel of evildoers, From the tumult of those who do iniquity, Who have sharpened their tongue like a sword. They aimed bitter speech as their arrow, To shoot from concealment at the blameless; Suddenly they shoot at him, and do not fear.” The next indicator that the root of bitterness is active is by imaginary conversations that are replayed in the mind, as you conspire what you will say to each of your opponents’ responses. Fourth, and progressively more damaging, is that a moral inversion occurs; when you find yourself justifying what you would never approve of in other circumstances, you are being overcome by bitterness. In Isaiah 5:20, the prophet says it like this, “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil; Who substitute darkness for light and light for darkness; Who substitute bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!” The fifth sign of bitterness in your life is obvious to everyone who speaks with you, for out of the mouth-the heart speaks. The Apostle Paul in Romans 3:14 says, “Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness.” Your heart and mouth become full of bitterness and when you get jostled, it overflows out of your mouth. If you are convicted by the Spirit of God, you need to confess your own sin, as if you are the only one at fault.

While these Biblical principles are applicable to all, the Bible addresses more text about marriage to the husband than the wife, so much of this is geared exclusively to the man, which may seem unfair on the surface, but let us not be bitter against God, for what right has the clay to question the potter? Husband, you must “love,” and “be not bitter against” your wife. I know that this a plain and simple in command, but it is more difficult in practice.  Husband, how is your bitterness expressed in real life? It is expressed in anything and everything that is outside of “love.” What are some examples? When your wife fails to compliment you and build your ego, she strikes at your most basic need. Yet, you are to love her anyway, and show her kindness. When she fails to thank you for the many things you have done to support her, you are to love her anyway, and continue to provide for her. When she befriends those who have abused your generosity, even takes the other side with sympathetic understanding against you, you must be understanding and gentle toward her. Hard as that is, it is your unconditional marriage covenant responsibility. I know that these are not easy words to hear, and they are not easy to say, but the goal of our marriages, indeed of our whole lives, is to be conformed into the image of Jesus Christ. Many will see themselves as victims, but the word victim is not in the Bible. Most people have a tendency to sin in response to another person’s sin, and most people do see their own sin as less offensive than another’s sin. When we are wronged, it is helpful to remember that nothing anyone ever does against us is worse than our own sin against a holy God.

So in order to not only avoid divorce, but to have a satisfying marriage, we need to have God’s perspective on marriage problems-how they stand between us and God and stem from the hardness and deceitfulness of our hearts; and  we absolutely must get God’s perspective on marriage as a lifelong covenant. A covenant is a formal legal agreement or contract entered into in the presence of witnesses, which has certain binding obligations. Marriage, in God’s design, is based on a covenant, not on feelings of romantic love. The most important witness in this covenant is God Himself, and He views this covenant seriously and as lifelong covenant. Marriage is intended to be a picture of the believer’s relationship with God. The Christian marriage should be a reflection of the eternal covenant love of Jesus Christ for His chosen bride, the church. When the world looks at your marriage, does it see a Christian husband’s faithful love for his wife? Does it get a glimpse of how God loves those who are in a covenant relationship with Him? The world needs so desperately to know of God’s great love, and broken marriages shatter our witness. If the word “divorce” pops into your mind, think about divorcing our godless culture. To avoid divorce in your marriage, develop God’s covenant perspective!

By Jeff Keeney

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Why “Substitutionary Atonement” Remains Crucial

A great post by Michael Horton professor at Westminster Seminary California originally posted  at the Resurgence blog.

When it comes to interpreting Christ’s saving work, everything turns on our view of God’s character and the seriousness of sin. God’s law is not merely a reflection of his will but of his moral nature. God cannot relax his holy will or righteous demands. Death is not merely an example of his displeasure or an arbitrary punishment. Rather, it is the legal sentence for violating his covenant (Ezek 18:4; Rom 6:23).

Losing Substitution

Yale theologian George Lindbeck says that at least in practice, Abelard’s view of salvation by following Christ’s example (and the cross as the demonstration of God’s love that motivates our repentance) now seems to have edged out any notion of an objective, substitutionary atonement. “The atonement is not high on the contemporary agendas of either Catholics or Protestants,” Lindbeck surmises. “More specifically, the penal-substitutionary versions…that have been dominant on the popular level for hundreds of years are disappearing.”

This situation is as true for evangelicals as for liberal Protestants, he observes. This is because justification through faith alone (sola fide) makes little sense in a system that makes central our subjective conversion (understood in synergistic terms as cooperation with grace), rather than the objective work of Christ. “Our increasingly feel-good therapeutic culture is antithetical to talk of the cross” and our “consumerist society” has made the doctrine a pariah.

The Repugnance of the Blood of Christ

Similarly, Princeton Seminary’s George Hunsinger notes, “The blood of Christ is repugnant to the Gentile mind, whether ancient or modern. This mind would prevail were it not continually disrupted by grace.” If it isn’t disruptive, it isn’t grace. In contemporary discourse on the atonement and justification, Hunsinger judges, “The social or horizontal aspect of reconciliation…eclipses its vertical aspect.” Gustaf Aulen observed,

    The subjective type has connections with Abelard, and with a few other movements here and there, such as Socinianism; but its rise to power came during the period of the Enlightenment… with the disintegration of the ‘objective’ doctrine….In the Middle Ages it was gradually ousted from its place in the theological teaching of the church, but it survived still in her devotional language and in her art…The theologians of the Enlightenment were the declared enemies of orthodoxy; and a chief object of their assault was just the satisfaction-theory of the Atonement, which they described as a relic of Judaism surviving in Christianity.

At the center of such criticism stood the doctrines of vicarious atonement and justification, which Kant regarded as morally debilitating.

Protestant liberalism repeated the Socinian arguments against any judicial concept of the cross. “And so it came about,” notes Colin Gunton, “that various forms of exemplarism took the field, under the impulses provided by the rational criticism of traditional theologies by Kant, Schleiermacher, and Hegel. In place of an act of God centered in a historic life and death, towards the otherwise helpless, the emphasis came to be upon those who by appropriate action could help themselves.”

At least implicitly combining various subjective theories already mentioned, this trajectory is especially represented in the work of Jürgen Moltmann and liberation theology but also in much of the popular preaching and teaching in contemporary evangelicalism. In much of evangelicalism today, the emphasis falls on the question “What Would Jesus Do?” rather than “What Has Jesus Done?” Jesus provides the model for us to imitate for personal or social transformation. Especially in some contemporary Anabaptist and feminist theologies, the theme of God’s wrath against sinners is regarded as a form of violence that legitimizes human revenge. Rather than see Christ’s work as bearing a sentence that we deserved, it is seen as moral empowerment for our just praxis (good works) in transforming the world.

Like some Arminian theologians in the past, Clark Pinnock dismisses the doctrine as if it were simply a curious and dangerous hold-over from Calvinism. However, as Roman Catholic scholar John Knox observes, “The concept of the cross as sacrifice belongs to the very warp and woof of the New Testament, while there is no evidence whatever that the early Church entertained the view that the purpose of Christ’s death was to disclose the love of God.”

Sin: An Offense Against God

The Reformation interpretation of Christ’s work cannot be simply equated with Anselm’s satisfaction theory. Anselm’s formulation properly directs our attention to the objective character of the atonement: God’s problem with sin. It is God who has been offended. We need to know something about the distinctive character of this God who has been offended by our sin and the covenantal relationship in which he created us as image-bearers. Sin reaches every nook and cranny of human relationships, but it is treated throughout Scripture as primarily a transgression of God’s command. Sin’s character is not sufficiently appreciated when it is reduced simply to broken lives and relationships between human beings or even to the individual’s subjective sense of anxiety, guilt, and alienation from God. Apart from Christ’s saving work, we are objectively enemies of God and subject to his just condemnation.

Nevertheless, the Anselmian interpretation has certain exegetical and doctrinal weaknesses. Louis Berkhof explains, “The theory of Anselm is sometimes identified with that of the Reformers, which is also known as the satisfaction theory, but the two are not identical.” While Anselm grounds the atonement in the need to satisfy God’s offended dignity, Reformation theology recognized that it was God’s justice that was at stake. There is no room in Anselm’s theory for Christ meriting life for us by his active obedience or for suffering the penalty for our sin; only the offer of a tribute that more than compensated for human offence—”and this is really the Roman Catholic doctrine of penance applied to the work of Christ.” Furthermore, Reformed theology has faulted the theory for reducing the atonement to a commercial transaction between God and Jesus Christ without any treatment of its communication to sinners.

Comprehensive Salvation

Calvinists have always affirmed that the nature and effects of Christ’s saving work cannot be reduced to solely a substitutionary sacrifice that brings forgiveness of sins. Recognizing the vastness of sin’s effects, Reformed theology interprets Christ’s saving work as including the recapitulation of Adam’s disobedience, fulfilling all righteousness in our place as our federal head. “In short,” noted Calvin, “from the time when he took on the form of a servant, he began to pay the price of liberation in order to redeem us” (Institutes 2.16.5).

Atonement cancels debts, but justification raises us upright in God’s presence, with Christ’s righteousness credited to our account. Atonement bears away our guilt, but justification gives us that positive standing in God’s court so that we are not only forgiven but wholly acceptable, righteous, holy, and pleasing to God for Christ’s sake. Therefore, rather than accept a false choice between a substitutionary death and a saving life, there is much in the Irenaean theory of recapitulation that belongs to the warp and woof of vicarious substitution itself. Christ’s penal substitution is not the whole of Christ’s work, but without it nothing else matters. Therefore, his incarnation and obedient life are as necessary as his voluntary death. Furthermore, Christ’s death conquers the powers of Satan, evil, and death that hold this present age in bondage, and his saving work encompasses the resurrection of ascension, and his return to make all things new.

Substitution and Christus Victor

Reformed theology has always encouraged a richer and more integrated understanding of Christ’s saving work that encompasses his incarnation, obedient life, sacrificial death, and triumphant resurrection. However, this tradition has recognized that Christ’s victory over the powers of evil and the cosmic renewal that will be consummated when Christ returns depend on the success of his vicarious satisfaction of God’s justice. In Christ’s cross, the love and the righteousness of God are equally revealed in the triumph of grace. After all, Satan and his demonic forces, including death, hold sway only as long as there is a legal basis for God’s own case against us.

In Colossians 2:13-15, the locus classicus for the Christus Victor view, Christ’s conquest over the principalities and powers is based on his having borne our debt for violation of the law, nailing our debts to his cross. Clearly, then, far from being an alternative, Christ’s victory over the powers is based on its character as penal substitution. Similarly, in 1 Corinthians 15:53-56 the gift of immortality is attributed to Christ’s having taken away the legal basis for death’s dominion: “The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. But thanks be to God who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.”

The truth in these other models is therefore not only affirmed but integrated into Reformed treatments of Christ’s atonement. However, these other aspects can only be true because Christ has fulfilled all righteousness and borne the entire sentence of the law’s judgment in our place. That is what these passages clearly affirm. Sin is not merely on the surface of things: following Adam’s negative example. Sin is not merely negative behaviors that need to be reformed; it is a condition from which we cannot extricate ourselves and it incurs a penalty that a just and righteous God must execute. Death results from sin and sin is defined by the law. It is the law’s sentence that must be reversed if we are to share in everlasting life. The legal issue must be resolved if the symptoms of the curse are to be lifted.

Objective Reconciliation

Therefore, the doctrine of penal substitution has always been at the heart of Reformed (as other) accounts of Christ’s redemptive work. Briefly defined, this work is penal not chiefly as punishment for God’s offended dignity, but because God’s holy justice requires payment of the debt incurred against his covenant law. It is substitutionary because someone else, namely, the God-Man, Jesus Christ, bears the sanctions (curses) of this law in our place.

Thus, reconciliation is not first of all subjective but objective. Because God can now legally forgive and justify the ungodly—in other words, is objectively reconciled to the world—he can simultaneously reconcile the world to himself (Rom 5:10; 2 Cor 5:19-20). Other New Testament terms employed for this sacrifice (lutron and antilutron) as well as the prepositions peri, huper and anti (in the place of) underscore the substitutionary, vicarious nature of this sacrifice. Martin Hengel observes that “dying for” is a Pauline formula rooted in the earliest Jerusalem community (cf. Acts 6:13).

The Jewish council accused Jesus, Stephen, and Paul of attacking the Temple, which suggests, according to Martin Hengel, that the heart of the church’s earliest proclamation was “the death of the crucified Messiah, who had vicariously taken upon himself the curse of the Law, had made the Temple obsolete as a place of everlasting atonement for the sins of Israel…” “Therefore the ritual Law had lost its significance as a necessary institution for salvation.” Apart from the notion of appeasement of God’s wrath, the joyful announcement, “Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world” (Jn 1:29) is inconceivable. It is the sinless substitute for the sinful people that is of central importance in the biblical doctrine of atonement (Mt. 26:28; 2 Cor 5:21; Gal. 3:13; Heb. 9:28; 1 Pet 2:24, 3:18, etc.).

A Willing Substitute

It is not only the love of the Father, but of the Son, that secures this substitution. In Isaiah 53, Yahweh is the one who offers up the Servant on behalf of the people. And the Good Shepherd himself says that he lays down his life for the sheep, even adding, “No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have power to lay it down, and I have power to take it up again” (Jn 10:18).

While those involved in carrying out the execution, both Jews and Gentiles, can be blamed in one sense, ultimately they did “whatever [God's] hand and [God's] plan had predestined to take place” (Acts 4:28). As “a lamb without defect or blemish,” Peter declares, “He was destined before the foundation of the world, but was revealed at the end of the ages for your sake” (1 Pet 1:20-21). That God’s wrath required punishment underscores his justice, but the fact that he himself gave what was required in the place of our punishment underscores his merciful love. And in both cases it is God who gives up his Son to the cross and the Son who gives himself up in the Spirit.

Dr. Michael Horton will be speaking at the John 10:16 Conference August 4-5 in New York.

You can download this article with footnotes as a PDF.

October 11, 2010 - 1:22 pm

Theodore A. Jones - “It is not those who hear the law who are righteous in God’s sight, but it is those who obey the law who will be declared righteous.” Since the law has been changed by adding a word to it in regard to Jesus’ crucifixion, Heb. 7:12b. It is the sin of his crucifixion which remains as the issue that each man must resolve AFTER his crucifixion or be in contempt of a law. Jesus did not die in anyones’ place. Horton along with any other advocate of substitutionary atonement is wrong.

October 11, 2010 - 8:59 pm

Jeff - Theodore, it seems like you have not understood Paul’s argument in Romans 2 leading up to his quotes of Psalm 14 and Psalm 53 that there is “none righteous, no, not one” and his summation in Romans 3:20, “For by works of the law no human being will be justified in his sight, since through the law comes knowledge of sin.” If you, or anyone else for that matter, are counting on their own ability to turn from sin or obey the law in order to be declared righteous by God, the reception on the day of the Lord will be…’I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’
According to Scripture every person sins and needs to make atonement, but lacks both the power and the resources for doing so. All have offended their Creator, whose nature it is to hate sin (Jer. 4:4-8; Hab. 1:13) and to punish it (Ps. 5:4-6; Rom. 1:18; 2:5-9). Those who have sinned cannot be accepted by and do not have fellowship with God unless atonement is made. Since there is sin in even the best actions of sinful creatures, anything we do in the hope of making amends can only increase our guilt or worsen our situation, for the “sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord” (Prov 15:8). There is no way to establish one’s own righteousness before God (Job 15:14-16; Is. 64:6; Rom 10:2-3); it simply cannot be done.
But against this background of human hopelessness, Scripture reveals the grace and mercy of God, who Himself provides the atonement that sin has made necessary. God’s amazing grace is the focus of Biblical faith; from Genesis to Revelation it shines out with breathtaking glory.

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Biblical Data on the Deity of Christ

(A.A. Hodge, Outlines of Theology)

I.     Old Testament Witnesses to Deity

A.     The Angel of the Lord

B.      Psalm 2, universal dominion (Acts 13:33)

C.      Psalm 45, eternal throne (Hebrews 1:8-9)

D.      Isaiah 9:6, might God, everlasting Father

E.       Micah 5:2, from of old

F.       Malachi 3:12, his temple (Mark 1:2)

II.    New Testament Descriptions of Christ as Jehovah

III.  Use of Divine Titles in New Testament

A.      John 1:1, God

B.      John 20:28, Lord and God

C.      Romans 9:5, God over all

D.      Titus 2:13, God and Savior (Isaiah 63:8)

E.      1 John 5:20, Son of God, true God

F.      John 8:58, I AM

IV.  Divine Perfections Ascribed to Christ in New Testament

A.     Eternity, John 8:58; Revelation 1:8, 17, 18; 22:13

B.     Immutability, Hebrews 13:8; 1:11, 12

C.     Omnipresence, John 3:13, Matthew 28:20

D.     Omniscience, Matthew 11:27; Revelation 2:23

E.     Omnipotence, John 5:17, Hebrews 1:3, Revelation 11:17

V.  Divine Works Ascribed to Christ in New Testament

A.      Creation, John 1:3, Colossians 1:16, 7

B.      Preservation, Hebrews 1:3, Colossians 1:17

C.      Providence, Matthew 28:18

D.      Miracles, John 5:21, 36

E.       Judgment, II Corinthians 5:10, Matthew 25:31,2

F.       Election, John 13:18

G.      Sanctification, Ephesians 5:26

H.      Sending the Holy Spirit, John 10:28

I.       Giving life, John 10:28

VI.   Supreme Worship to be Given to Christ in New Testament

A.      Calling on his name, I Corinthians 1:2

B.       Invoked in blessing, II Corinthians 13:14

C.       Adoration and Prostration, Philippians 2:10, 11; Revelation 7:10

D.       Receiving praise, glory, Revelation 1:5, 6

VII.   The Work of Christ

A.       Objective soteriology and his work as Prophet, Priest, King

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Characteristics of the godly man

You have probably heard all the hoopla: on TV; on the radio; in magazines; on Oprah; on Dr. Phil, you know the hoopla I am talking about-that men need to get in touch with their feminine sides. You have heard that, right? Where does this come from? Our culture seems intent on destroying the roles and characteristics of manhood, and even rewriting the definitions of who and what a man is. We are constantly bombarded by the world with the stereotypes of what a “real man” is. This cultural foolishness has resulted in many men being confused or even outright deceived about what a godly man really is and how he should fulfill the roles of husband, father and leader in his home, church and community. ( a great resource addressing men’s roles is The Masculine Mandate: God’s Calling to Men which I have reviewed here)

I believe that a lot of the confusion about godly men can be traced to the sheer lack of them in our society. We have unprecedented numbers of children growing up in single parent homes, without fathers much of the time. Some of this is due to rampant divorce, adultery, addictions to drugs, alcohol and pornography, and some is due to the current popularity of lifestyle choices that endorse same sex relationships or preclude marriage altogether, all while trying to raise children. There has also been a blight in the Christian community of godly men that will mentor, disciple and teach others what a godly man is by example. This article is not meant to be a socio-political commentary, or address these issues, but rather to illustrate clearly what so many don’t know: the characteristics of the godly man.

The Apostle Paul gave God’s clear outline and instructions to the Church on which men should be chosen for service. What kind of men did Paul say should be chosen? Godly men. Which men are godly, is it the one’s that show up every Sunday? Is it the ones that wear badges or preach or teach? How can these men be identified, and more importantly are you one of them? The virtues and characteristics of godly men are prerequisites for any man to lead in the Church, and Paul says, “If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task.” in the instructions to the Church about choosing her leaders.

Let’s look at what Paul says in 1 Timothy 3:2-4 from the ESV: “herefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God’s church.”

Paul reinforces this in his letter to Titus: “if anyone is above reproach, the husband of one wife, and his children are believers and not open to the charge of debauchery or insubordination. For an overseer, as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable, a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it.” (Titus 1:6-9 ESV)

With the exception of two traits that apply only to church leaders, being able to teach and not being a new convert, these characteristics of godly men are ones that all men should possess. Here are the characteristics of the godly man:

  • Above reproach: blameless because he does not practice evil. If and when he is accused, there is no evidence.
  • Husband of one wife: a one-woman man. He is faithful and true to his wife.
  • Temperate: in control of himself and well-composed.
  • Prudent: in touch with reality and alert. He has sound judgement.
  • Respectable: proper, orderly, and modest, as opposed to scatter-brained and immature.
  • Hospitable: A friend to strangers and will to have others in his home.
  • Not addicted to much wine: moderated and self-controlled. He is not a drunkard.
  • Not pugnacious/Uncontentious: not quarrelsome or easily angered.
  • Free from the love of money: not covetous or focused on earthly wealth.
  • Manages his household well: maintains and cares for his house well. He leads his family, rather than driving them or letting them rule him.
  • Keeps his children under control with all dignity: has children who obey him. Because he is dignified in how he manages them, they act with dignity.

(list from The Exemplary Husband by Stuart Scott)

by Jeff Keeney

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